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Let’s talk lingerie—and not just the kind sold under “Men’s” and “Women’s” tabs.

The truth is, the traditional lingerie market is built on a binary. Everything from sizing to style to marketing is geared toward either cisgender men or cisgender women. But gender isn’t that simple, and honestly? It never has been.

Non-binary folks, trans people, genderqueer, genderfluid individuals—we exist, we’re thriving, and we deserve lingerie that fits our bodies and our identities.

Why Gender-Inclusive Lingerie Matters

Lingerie is intimate. It’s the first thing you put on in the morning and the last thing you take off. It’s not just about function—it’s about comfort, confidence, and feeling seen.

But if you’re someone who doesn’t fit the traditional gender boxes, shopping for underwear can feel more like emotional labor than self-care. You either squeeze into something that doesn’t fit your body, or worse, settle for pieces that don't reflect who you are.

For too long, queer and trans bodies have been afterthoughts in the lingerie industry. It’s time for that to change.

Who’s Being Left Out?

Let’s get specific. Here are just a few groups who are often overlooked:

• Trans women (MTF) who want femme lingerie but can’t find pieces that fit their shape, especially pre-HRT or surgery.

• Trans men (FTM) who bind their chests but are forced to choose between painful compression or poor-quality options.

• Non-binary people who don’t want to be forced into “his” or “hers” sections, and need fluid, adaptable designs.

• Genderfluid folks whose presentation shifts day to day and want pieces that can evolve with them.

These are real people. And their needs are not niche—they’re just underserved.

So, What Does Gender-Inclusive Lingerie Look Like?

Designing beyond the binary means moving away from rigid gender roles and embracing body diversity and freedom of expression. Here’s what that can look like:

1. Neutral Cuts, Adjustable Designs

Think: soft binders that double as tanks. Bras with removable padding. Underwear with flexible pouches or extra room where needed. Straps and bands that adjust for different shapes. Pieces that can be worn in multiple ways depending on how someone wants to present that day.

Function meets freedom.

2. A Rethink of Sizing Systems

Traditional sizing—like 34B or M/L—is based on binary assumptions. More inclusive brands are creating size guides based on real bodies: chest width, hip-to-waist ratios, shoulder measurements, etc. It’s less about labeling your gender, and more about fitting your shape.

3. Visual Design Without Gender Codes

Let’s ditch the idea that pink lace = feminine and black briefs = masculine. A more inclusive approach embraces neutral tones, bold colors, soft textures, and clean lines—style that lets you decide the vibe.

4. Meeting Functional Needs Without Compromise

For trans women: soft, wireless bras that support but don’t assume breast tissue.
For trans men: breathable binders that compress without restricting breath or movement.
For non-binary folks: layerable pieces that can lean femme, masc, or completely in between.

It’s about creating products that work—not just products that “look like they belong” in a gendered box.

Brands That Are Leading the Way

Thankfully, some brands are already pushing boundaries.

• TomboyX, Origami Customs, Urbody, gc2b, and Savage X Fenty are offering products designed with queer, trans, and non-binary people in mind.

• They're hiring diverse models.

• They're using inclusive language.

• They're rejecting the gender binary in how they design, market, and present their collections.

And they’re proving something huge: Inclusive design isn't just the right thing—it's good business.

The Bottom Line

Redesigning lingerie isn’t just about bigger sizes or neutral colors. It’s about asking better questions.

What does comfort look like for you?
What helps you feel affirmed, sexy, safe?
How can lingerie support not just your body—but your identity?

When we stop asking, “Is this for men or women?” and start asking, “Does this feel right for me?”—that’s when real change begins.

Because at the end of the day, the best lingerie doesn’t assume your gender.
It sees you.
It fits you.
It moves with you.

And honestly? That’s kind of revolutionary.